I had the healthiest fight in a relationship ever
He was worried about me buying edibles from sketchy sellers. He told me his concerns about it and we had a sort of silent standoff. I would say "I love you" and he would say it back no matter what at the least though. He never raised, yelled, or anything of the sort.
I knew he wasn't really angry with me, more so upset because he was worried. He wouldn't really talk or respond to anything else unless I asked a question about why he was upset. But he never stopped saying I love you or anything and I didn't really get silent treatment like I thought I would. I was afraid of that or having to make a quick compromise but he never made me feel that way.
I told him it's okay that he is upset with me. And I told him not to stay upset for the rest of the month lmao.
His silence simply means that he needs some space to sort his emotions and that's what I gave him.
I told him that if he really didn't want me using them then I would throw them out but he didn't say anything.
He didn't say anything because he wants me to make my own choices.
And then within a few hours he warmed back up.
I've never had this sort of healthy bond with someone before.
I knew he wasn't really angry with me, more so upset because he was worried. He wouldn't really talk or respond to anything else unless I asked a question about why he was upset. But he never stopped saying I love you or anything and I didn't really get silent treatment like I thought I would. I was afraid of that or having to make a quick compromise but he never made me feel that way.
I told him it's okay that he is upset with me. And I told him not to stay upset for the rest of the month lmao.
His silence simply means that he needs some space to sort his emotions and that's what I gave him.
I told him that if he really didn't want me using them then I would throw them out but he didn't say anything.
He didn't say anything because he wants me to make my own choices.
And then within a few hours he warmed back up.
I've never had this sort of healthy bond with someone before.