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I had the healthiest fight in a relationship ever

He was worried about me buying edibles from sketchy sellers. He told me his concerns about it and we had a sort of silent standoff. I would say "I love you" and he would say it back no matter what at the least though. He never raised, yelled, or anything of the sort.
I knew he wasn't really angry with me, more so upset because he was worried. He wouldn't really talk or respond to anything else unless I asked a question about why he was upset. But he never stopped saying I love you or anything and I didn't really get silent treatment like I thought I would. I was afraid of that or having to make a quick compromise but he never made me feel that way.

I told him it's okay that he is upset with me. And I told him not to stay upset for the rest of the month lmao.
His silence simply means that he needs some space to sort his emotions and that's what I gave him.
I told him that if he really didn't want me using them then I would throw them out but he didn't say anything.
He didn't say anything because he wants me to make my own choices.

And then within a few hours he warmed back up.
I've never had this sort of healthy bond with someone before.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M Best Comment
The best fighting is when you both learn something.
The worst fighting is just conflict in which nothing is learned or resolved.
Fighting is going to happen, and it isn't easy, but it's something we all need to learn to do maturely in order to move forward. I'm always learning!
Juvia · 22-25, F
@uncalled4 Yeah and I was scared asf. Its the first healthy conflict I've had with relationships. I was scared it would be like other partners. But he wasn't.
I'm very grateful he's been so patient with me as well and kind.
I've never had this type of fight before. He still loved me and told me that so I was like 😱
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Thanks, Novie!

Juvia · 22-25, F
Also the first legitimate fight we have had before so I was scared because of how my relationships have been in the past🥲

 
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