Do I though?

why is it so embarrassing to admit you might like someone? or want a relationship so badly one minute and then regret it in the next? like just thinking about the commitment is so scary i like knowing there’s an end point bc the idea that i would have to keep up with it forever is so daunting. but at the same time i wanna experience that devotion and love but at the same time i don’t?? what’s up with that emotions are so confusing

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NerdyPotato · M

And old friend had an interesting agreement with her boyfriend. They committed to each other for a year, then evaluated and decided whether to commit for another year. Kind of a middle way between commitment and freedom to leave.

newdawnnewday · 22-25, F

@NerdyPotato wow that sounds like the best middle ground! they sure had the right mindset. things could change so rapidly offering that limbo space for reassurance and evaluation can be so helpful!

NerdyPotato · M

@newdawnnewday I agree. They were ahead of their time in many ways. It's probably not for everyone and I don't even know if it's for me, but it is something worth considering at the very least.

newdawnnewday · 22-25, F

@NerdyPotato definitely something to keep in mind! i never heard of an agreement like that so thanks for letting me know and opening the horizons lmao

NerdyPotato · M

@newdawnnewday you're welcome. I hope it helps you in future relationships.