I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

I'm 26 years old, and I feel that every women that's in my age group, and is single, is single for a reason. Like they're so unbelievably self centered/mentally ill, or have unrealisticly high standards. While those same women have nothing (no money,no physical items, not very physically attractive), but they expect men to have ALL of that? Do single women roughly my age, or older feel the same about single men in their age group?

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tj786100 · 51-55, M

Look, you're jaded right now, which is normal. Does this problem exist? I believe so, but it definitely cuts both ways, I promise you. Life has gotten materially easier over the decades in terms of survival challenges, yet - and really as a result - we have significantly fewer mental coping tools. Struggling and succeeding, sometimes failing, leads to maturity - it cannot he handed to you.

Regardless, don't let your current frustration take you out of the pool. You only need to find ONE, and there are plenty of compatible women out there. Take a different strategy to how you are looking maybe, but whatever you do, don't categorize all women age (26 or whatever) as something negative - that will 100% show in your interactions with them, which assures your failure.

ScottyTaco · 31-35, M

@tj786100 I know not all women are like that, but I feel like it's a majority of women, and men. Men expect women to have big boobs/butts, and still remain slender. While on the other hand the man is fat, lazy, stupid, and arrogant.

tj786100 · 51-55, M

Keep your head up and keep trying! Meaningful companionship is such a vital component of life.