I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

I'm 26 years old, and I feel that every women that's in my age group, and is single, is single for a reason. Like they're so unbelievably self centered/mentally ill, or have unrealisticly high standards. While those same women have nothing (no money,no physical items, not very physically attractive), but they expect men to have ALL of that? Do single women roughly my age, or older feel the same about single men in their age group?

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Zonuss · 41-45, M

Maybe it is you.

ScottyTaco · 31-35, M

@Zonuss I thought that, so I've asked several people that I've known for years ( friends, neighbors, family) if I had some sort of attitude that I wasn't aware of. Anyway, every person that I talked to said that it's not my fault. I was told I need to raise MY standards, and find people that aren't so bad.

ScottyTaco · 31-35, M

@Zonuss Its like shitty people are attracted to me, and I'm attracted to shitty people.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@ScottyTaco That's what it is. You like shitty women.

Elegy · 46-50

@ScottyTaco Common denominator and all. 🤷‍♂️

ScottyTaco · 31-35, M

@Zonuss They're the only ones that I'm attracted to, and the only ones (that I notice) that are attracted to me. Both of my ex's were the same.

tj786100 · 51-55, M

@ScottyTaco Friends and family won't be honest, typically. Most people lack the ability (whether guts or perceptibility) to give honest constructive criticism - especially to those they like!

I know strong, intelligent, self-driven women exist.

If you're attracted to the not-so-self-driven, and they to you, by definition, isn't it you that needs to find the change (TO YOU!)