I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

Do you or your spouse ask for a timeout to calm down and be creative in your problem-solving?

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SW-User

Not really.

I got tired of being baited into her arguments that I quickly tell her I’m not interested in continuing or I go silent.

I know going silent sucks, but there are only so many times you can fall for the same tricks.

Madeleine · 41-45, F

@SW-User I understand. I believe that a relationship should be lead by one person. It's the best way to find balance.. as a ship that has two captains sinks.