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I can't wait for it to not hurt this much

Tomorrow's officially a month since we broke things off and its been brutal. I know they say time is the master and it heals but sometimes.. I wish I could fast forward time to when I didnt think of them this much. 😔
JamesBugman · 56-60, T Best Comment
Never wish time would go faster. Go to the beach, go for a walk in the woods, go skydiving, learn scuba, ride a horse, ride a black horse.. ride 3 at once. Doesn't matter.. enjoy your life, every single minute, and don't dwell on the past.
Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F
@JamesBugman I think I really needed to hear this

I’m not one for cliches like time healing all wounds. You’re grieving a loss and it’s a process. Try to keep busy/distracted, you will get through this. In the meantime remember that what you’re going through takes courage and strength and that there will hopefully come a time when you’re proud of yourself and see this experience as a valuable lesson learned which you can use moving forward.
Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F
@OlderSometimesWiser thank you for saying this
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Grieving is a process. Sadly, there is no fast forward. It hurts for as long as it hurts. It only heals as much as it heals and often that's not very much. Do the best you can. It is a personal journey.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Go out with friends. Find things you love to do and do them. Don’t take the time to forget. Take the time to better yourself and find happiness.
TexChik · F
Now is when you lean on your friends and make a few changes in your life to occupy your mind with something else. Time is brutally slow, but it is the only cure.
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Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F
@TexChik it does suck but I'm really hoping to put some work into improving my self esteem and confidence because I just know I shouldn't have gone through all that having seen the signs
TexChik · F
@Alifeinterrupted That is always a good idea, not just when you are hurting. Get out of your comfort zone, make a plan and a promise, and then do it...☺

💪🏻
invisiblewoman · 36-40, F
It never goes away
beetlebumdont · 26-30, F
You just do drugs for a year and it goes away literally... just dont get hooked
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
@beetlebumdont Worst advice ever lol
beetlebumdont · 26-30, F
@JamesBugman it worked for me so idk
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Sometimes,you have no choice so you do what you think you can't.
Sorry, because break ups hurt.
minxy · 46-50, F
I hate time, it can be so cruel.
It would be so nice to have a fast forward button, I agree..
Find things to do. Go out with friends. Dont dwell on the past. Hugs
cd4259 · 61-69, M
Massive gentle hugs and kisses
496sbc · 36-40, M
it really never goes away. when something hurts u like this it stays with u for ever
Sarafamily · 22-25, F

 
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