I Wasted My Time On Someone

If their is something that I hate it's my time being wasted. If you're not into someone like that then why play games? Grow a pair and be honest so we can both move on with our lives. Give me that much respect. I deserve it.

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SW-User

Hard to say in your particular case but it's not always about games. Sometimes a person just doesn't know what they want. A lot can be at stake in making the wrong decision. It can plague both people equally. Hopefully honesty will be what helps them work through it rather than being an indication that it's time to move on.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Yeah I am currently in a tough decision myself, and I don't want to turn down because I want to give it a fair shot and I do like her, but I don't want to go into something before I know this is what I want.. It's out of respect and thoughtfulness, I don't want us to end brutally later on.

SW-User

Sounds like you're on the right track to me.....the worst thing you could do for yourself or her is go into it deeper not knowing if it's what you want. Even under the most perfect of circumstances you'll have no idea how things might turn out down the road. Some people continue to grow together while others grow apart.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@StrangeWorld: 🤗 Thanks