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Hasank · 31-35, M
Hmm
SW-User
Hard to say in your particular case but it's not always about games. Sometimes a person just doesn't know what they want. A lot can be at stake in making the wrong decision. It can plague both people equally. Hopefully honesty will be what helps them work through it rather than being an indication that it's time to move on.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Yeah I am currently in a tough decision myself, and I don't want to turn down because I want to give it a fair shot and I do like her, but I don't want to go into something before I know this is what I want.. It's out of respect and thoughtfulness, I don't want us to end brutally later on.
SW-User
Sounds like you're on the right track to me.....the worst thing you could do for yourself or her is go into it deeper not knowing if it's what you want. Even under the most perfect of circumstances you'll have no idea how things might turn out down the road. Some people continue to grow together while others grow apart.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Highonheels · 51-55, M
I know exactly how you feel I was with my wife for 16 years and I have been separated from her for the last 3 I feel like I wasted my time with her but she's still wasting my time she won't divorce me but I'm going to divorce her and get it over with so I can move on with my life she hasn't loved me for a long time and I don't love her anymore it sucks still being together still being married too someone you don't have feelings for anymore someone who doesn't want to be with you
HypnoChode · 46-50, M
SW-User
Exactly, what it takes to be honest and respectful.
ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
No time for games TRIX are for KIDS
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
👀 Did he lie to you?