I just need to be loved
Wish I had someone to hold me. Make all the pain go away.
41-45, F
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Busybee333 路 31-35, F
I want to but can't resolve the pain, life can be like this sometimes :(.
But I can send you a big virtual hug and tell you "It's going to be ok, I know it... and I know you know it too.".
You said you want someone to love you - that someone starts with you. You could be "missing yourself". Love yourself better on a daily basis. Make it a mission to include some special things or routines to you every day... that make you feel nice.
The most alone feeling is not exactly being alone. It is when one forgot how they can shine inside out (indefinitely). Contrary to societal norms and expectations, your inner flame won't just waver on its own. If you tell yourself that your reservoir of light is eternal, that is how it will feel. When you think your heart is almost empty, you must remember that oh wait... my love and hope inside does not have such a thing as an "end"! Then, you will be more giving to all and you will also receive more from life. Will some use/hurt you? No one knows, maybe. But that's on them. Don't rob yourself from the chance to connect with many extraordinary people at the expense of a few that just didn't know better.
Go out more often. Find something that makes you feel alive. Keep doing that!
Give yourself some alone time too - sometimes you might actually need the peace to really think calmly and relax.
But also, remember to always give yourself venues to make new friends.
There is always a way to have meaningful connections.
A smile goes a really, really long way. One of the most beautiful things, especially when it is real. Please find a way to find yours again. You know how.. better than me.
Every time I respond to a post I pray for that person to feel better in my heart. That is genuine and makes me feel that maybe, when I wish for that, it can somehow reach the person too. The world has its shadows. But shadows underline the light. The darker the shadow, the brighter the adjacent light. If you see dark... you might be the light 馃尀
But I can send you a big virtual hug and tell you "It's going to be ok, I know it... and I know you know it too.".
You said you want someone to love you - that someone starts with you. You could be "missing yourself". Love yourself better on a daily basis. Make it a mission to include some special things or routines to you every day... that make you feel nice.
The most alone feeling is not exactly being alone. It is when one forgot how they can shine inside out (indefinitely). Contrary to societal norms and expectations, your inner flame won't just waver on its own. If you tell yourself that your reservoir of light is eternal, that is how it will feel. When you think your heart is almost empty, you must remember that oh wait... my love and hope inside does not have such a thing as an "end"! Then, you will be more giving to all and you will also receive more from life. Will some use/hurt you? No one knows, maybe. But that's on them. Don't rob yourself from the chance to connect with many extraordinary people at the expense of a few that just didn't know better.
Go out more often. Find something that makes you feel alive. Keep doing that!
Give yourself some alone time too - sometimes you might actually need the peace to really think calmly and relax.
But also, remember to always give yourself venues to make new friends.
There is always a way to have meaningful connections.
A smile goes a really, really long way. One of the most beautiful things, especially when it is real. Please find a way to find yours again. You know how.. better than me.
Every time I respond to a post I pray for that person to feel better in my heart. That is genuine and makes me feel that maybe, when I wish for that, it can somehow reach the person too. The world has its shadows. But shadows underline the light. The darker the shadow, the brighter the adjacent light. If you see dark... you might be the light 馃尀
Lilliesandlight 路 41-45, F
@Busybee333 thank you so much for your kind and wise words. And for your prayers.