I'm really wanting a dominant man but also want love and someone who is understanding.

I need this in my life. Fetlife doesn't work, because all those people are either too far into the lifestyle, taken, or just want to hook up with people. With that said, I don't know how to find what I want.

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SW-User

ya its cool to have someone w a leader personality cuz im too introverted but some men make it all abt the i am an alpha cringe

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@SW-User Not necessarily like that... not too dominant.

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@perceptivei Can you be submissive for the right Dom ? Can you handle a strong Dom ? Can you give the total submission that will bring out a Dom’s caring and understanding side ? Can you handle being dominated totally in all aspects of the relationship ? These are the questions you have to ask yourself . If you have more than two Yes answers then you will find your real Dom 🌹