Why is dating or marrying a virgin man a turn off for most women?

@lissah are you suggesting that virgin men dont know how to please women?

@SilentObZerver yep

@GoFish i know lots of men who are virgins

@SilentObZerver hmmm

@GoFish you prefer a virgin man?

@Northwest you dispute that?

@SilentObZerver yell at 12.

@jackrabbit10 since 12 you've never looked back

@SilentObZerver yell few times when a husband is chasing me,

@EldritchFox but will you prefer one over a non-virgin man?

@Katie01

That's a brilliant way to tell me you're not a lesbian while simultaneously affirming that you measure masculinity by a man's body count.

@SilentObZerver I'm bi and also yeah damn right that's how I measure it

@unsociableAnthony the question is about women

@unsociableAnthony That’s a solid yes from him. 😏

@AdmiralPrune lol

I understand why you would draw that conclusion

@AdmiralPrune so it still begs the question, what issues do they think willl lead to a guy remaining a virgin thats actually a turn off for women?

@SilentObZerver In my experience, they don't find male virginty terribly important. Probably a societal thing, but it just seems to be the way it is. On the other hand, the traditional valuing of female virginity seems to be based on the concept of the male owning/possessing the female, a question of property rights so to speak.

@ChipmunkErnie there must be a reason why its not really important to women....and thats what my OP is about

@SilentObZerver Because it's irrelevant. Because they don't care. Because where that penis has been in the past doesn't matter as much as where it will go in the future. How many reasons do you need other than the simple existence of the fact?

@Elessar you dont have to go around these days to know people's virginity status.....
Some are nold enough to share it online
But only retreat when they are about to go into serious relationship,
Thats when they tell you "my past is irrelevant"