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Would you date a person who said they wanted to remain a virgin till married ?

SW-User
That would mean they are religious nuts in most cases and as an atheist I will have to dump them lol
SW-User
@SW-User 😍
TexChik · F
@SW-User that’s fine, 🤷🏻‍♀️
Viper · M
My old answer would be no, because you have to make sure you're compatible in ways of life... and sadly failing to be long term compatible with a romantic or sexual connect has killed a lot of marriages.


But ultimately it comes down to the person, as I've had some flashbacks to this one woman who that wanted to stay a virgin until marriage and I surprisingly trusted her as she was an down right amazing person in every way that I knew her.

So yeah I'd probably be willing to date her... though she she was still with her first serious BF and they had been dating for maybe half their lives and their story seemed like the perfect love story... but when she wasn't around there were some negative signs that he might be becoming an arrogant jackass, I kinda wonder if they lasted or not.
Nimbus · M
@Viper Good point.

AS I have said below eveyryone is different and what is right for one may not be for another.
TexChik · F
My hubby did 😉
Nimbus · M
@TexChik Awwww, congrats :)
TexChik · F
@Nimbus 😁. Thanks
Sure, as sex isn’t the only thing I’m interested in when it comes to dating but their personality and other factors would determine if it would be long term and lead to more than just dating.
Nimbus · M
@Stark Good to hear.
Oh, okay, Nimbus. (Sighs) Give me her number then. But this is the last one!! Last time, it was a barnyard animal and let me tell you, Lady Gaga is not funny! He never laughs!!
Nimbus · M
@EugenieLaBorgia lolol, 😁
SW-User
Nah I’m not gonna let him put a ring on it without knowing if he wows me with his performance in the sheets
Nimbus · M
@SW-User 😛
Yes. Who wants to be with someone that everyone already "knows".
Nimbus · M
@DefiantHeart A consideration.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Haha at my age I would think they were joking
Nimbus · M
@cherokeepatti Awwwwww :)
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SW-User
I would, and I did. Been together for 28 years.
Nimbus · M
@SW-User Awww, congrats!
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SW-User
@Greybare I thought it was to get to know each other?
I can go on a date have fun with no sex involved... otherwise it would just be a hook up.
I rather take chances with a virgin than someone who thinks thier entitled to sex because they bought me dinner.
Not saying that's your attitude,as I wouldn't know.
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@Greybare what the hell??? You need to educate yourself before passing judgement like that.
Shayla · F
Nope. I don't view sex as sacred nor would I be compatible with anyone who does. I have no issue dating someone who wants to go slow, but a legal contract shouldn't be a deciding factor in physical intimacy.
Nimbus · M
@Shayla Good point.
AbbeyRhode · F
Sure, as long as everything was in working order, and he planned on making up for lost time after marriage. 😉
Nimbus · M
@AbbeyRhode *checks* :)
AbbeyRhode · F
@Nimbus Stop checking, you're already going blind! 😜
Nimbus · M
@AbbeyRhode lolololol,
SW-User
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm! What a scary thought.
Nimbus · M
@SW-User Good point.
@SW-User After tasting many many dicks/pussys. How one can live on one? That seem scary to me. Lol
SW-User
@Reflection2 why does it have to be many?
Why is one so scared of intimacy with the person they choose to spend their life with? What is it a marriage licence does to the relationship beside give a paper declaring your union?

That's a really hypocritical view of life..
EmeraldOdinelle · 22-25, F
No, they’ve clearly got some internal issues and I’m not ok to deal with that
Nimbus · M
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
Probably not. Sexual chemistry is a thing that needs to be tested.
Nimbus · M
@Sroonaka616 👍️
SW-User
Sure, if there are any my age left
Nimbus · M
@SW-User AWwww, I'm sure there must be.
SW-User
@Nimbus They don't have to be a virgin 😏
Nimbus · M
@SW-User 😛
Why would I wait out on the sex until marrying her?
Nimbus · M
@SapphicHeart Basically that is what the Q is.
There's no right or wrong answer at it is down to the individual.
@Nimbus
And therein lies my reply on the question.
I dont date but kudos to them
Nimbus · M
@SStarfish 👍️

Me too :)
😊🤗
shuhak · M
Of course. Why not?
Nimbus · M
@shuhak I have no idea.
Just look at the replies blow, some do and some don't.
shuhak · M
@Nimbus I read them all. It's rather sad to see that so many people have more respect for the act than for the person.
Nimbus · M
@shuhak That's humans, we are all different.
smiler2012 · 56-60
nimbus 🤔 what a virgin train user you mean 😁
Nimbus · M
@smiler2012 You'll have to ask Richard Branson :)
PrivatePeeks · 26-30, F
Are they extra hot?
SW-User
Who’s the girl in your pfp ?@PrivatePeeks
Nimbus · M
@PrivatePeeks POsssibly :)
PrivatePeeks · 26-30, F
@SW-User Julia Stiles. My pic is elsewhere.
Yes!! Wouldn't you
Nimbus · M
@thinkbigaboutlife K

Possibly.
abooklover · 56-60, F
I realllly doubt it.
Nimbus · M
@abooklover OK 👍️
SW-User
Probably not.
Nimbus · M
@SW-User 👍️
Nimbus · M
@Dewms 👍️
Nimbus · M
@Nunlover 😁
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Why would you not date someone that wants to wait with sex until marriage? Unless you're just after sex, I don't see an issue with it.
Nimbus · M
@MartinTheFirst Some are more in a hurry than others I guess.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Nimbus I suppose. I wouldn't want to date someone who didn't have patience I guess.
Nimbus · M
@MartinTheFirst Fair enough, there are no set rules and everyone is different.
Date....yes

Marry, no
Nimbus · M
@InOtterWords Just for fun uh? :)
@Nimbus there is no problem with dating someone and getting to know then and seek companionship.
Dating is not just about getying laid.

But marriage is a lot more important. I wouldn't buy a mattress without testing it first.

 
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