🌹 My Yourney Still Unfolding 🌹

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In my last posts, I shared about the pain of giving, sacrificing, and hoping for love that never comes—while burying my own needs for the sake of family, faith, and survival. The truth is, my search for someone to “rescue” me has often ended in false hope and empty promises. There are many out there who see women like me as prey, offering comfort with one hand while taking with the other, but how do we honour our own hearts without falling into the traps of dissapointment 😔

But I don’t want to forget the ones who seems different. Those who connected with me on a deeper, more personal level. Who really seems to care'about me—my well-being, my feelings, my struggles. It means more than I can say💕 Thank you for reminding me that not everyone is out to play games.

My journey is not over. Whether I one day reconcile with my husband or find my happy ending elsewhere, I still believe there’s a chapter ahead where my heart will find peace. And until then, I will keep walking—one step at a time—still believing in love, still believing in hope.🌹

Docdon23 · M

Your post touched me. I understand completely. I experienced some similar things, under different circumstances. My longtime wife passed away a few years ago. I never thought, at my age, I would ever find anyone to truly love again. I had some horrible dating experiences, but also started doing work on myself. It is not for anyone else to fix me., to rescue me. It is also not for anyone else to change me, nor is it for me to change them into what I want, who i am, or my "twin." I have learned acceptance of another and others as they are matters. We each have our own path, our own story, our own reasons for being the way we are. When one finds someone to grow with, play with, laugh with, touch and make love to, spend time doing nothing with, that is divine. And we do not have to agree on everything or want to fix each other. Fix ourselves then bring that improving person into a meaningful relationship. That is what I have found recently works.

3timesalady · 51-55, F

@Docdon23 yes I understand, but your wife passed away, my husband is still very much alive and it's a different situation to deal with when your marriage is dead, but you still together 🤷🤷

in10RjFox · MVIP

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