I wonder how many people are actually unhappy in their marriages

I think a lot but I think it is because of the breakdown of the family that has been under attack since the formation of the league of nations (precursor to the United Nations).

The original goal was to destroy the Christian values and the family. If you look back in the 40s 50s and 60s you had family units black white Indian that had a loving family husband and wife. This was also mostly before casual sex. Most of these people had only been with their spouse maybe one other.

How often do people now look at their partner and compare them to a previous partner or wish their current partner had some of the qualities of a previous partner. Back in the past there was no comparison because you hadn't been with that many people. I'm speaking generally not about you or any specific person. I know I've slept with multiple ladies over my lifetime but originally I wanted to marry my first girlfriend. I had never thought about cheating or being with anyone other than her and had I married her that's the way I probably would have lived my life. How often do friends especially friends of women downput their husband by saying oh you could do so much better oh he's just wrong for that you need to leave him. Misery breeds misery.

One thing I've noticed is when a man is out with his buddies and he complains about his wife or girlfriend his buddies put him back in line and remind him of all of the positive things she does for him it is not like that from my experience when women go out and she complains about her man all her friends do is encourage her to leave him. This is an ideology that was instilled into women through the feminist revolution.