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SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Society makes unrealistic and irrational expectations of both parties. These matters should be discussed and worked out before the contract is signed . .
PoetryNEmotion · F
@SunshineGirl Society is irrelevant. It is our mindsets that must be real, communicative. And honest. Society does not live in my home nor my bed.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
@SunshineGirl I hear you, the only thing I’d say is that when one marries relatively young, it’s all bliss and optimism…no one foresees what happens 25 years later. No one wants to really face the well documented realities of aging and life. But I guess what you might be saying is that the matters to discuss aren’t specific; only a contract to agree to stay committed to discuss listen and support as things evolve - the expected profession, and surprises good and bad.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@PoetryNEmotion Continuous communication is essential. No assumptions should be made. Our minds should remain open and our hearts forgiving.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@SunshineGirl Some behaviors cannot be forgiven. Boundaries are set. People break them. Love means respect, honour, and commitment. At least to me. I care not what others do.