What do I do?

Lately I’ve been noticing I’m losing interest and feelings for my husband. We fight more, we’re distant, we don’t get excited to see each other and I just don’t want to be with him. I crave that “butterfly” feeling but I just don’t want it from him. Am I in the wrong?

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Ontheroad · M

Are you in the wrong? No, your feelings are yours and aren't wrong, but it does sound like there are deeper problems going on with the two of you.

The "butterflies" naturally go away and have to be replaced with a deeper connection, a deeper appreciation and love for your partner.

That takes work and commitment and only you can decide if it is worth the work.