If my husband comes out and tells me that things didn't happen that actually did...

@black4white this has to do with someone that ruined my life and my seeing her at work where he and i both met

@LILY61 so to get this correct ...its about an individual that ruined your life (just remember you have control of YOUR life) and now you work with her and your work place is the same place you and hubby met. Is that correct?

@black4white we did work there and then after months, i realized that she worked there. and he kept insisting that she didn't.
we don't work there any more.

@LILY61 I don’t condone lying but maybe he is doing that to protect you due to the pain he knows it’s caused in the past? Idk just trying to see a positive for you in this situation

@black4white and by the way...i have never had control over my life

@LILY61 From reading thru ALL of the messages from this post i will say this to you ...I am very sorry that you are in a situation where you seemingly have no way out and you are stuck in this relationship. I think you should spend a bit of time and try to look again and see if there is a way you can try to find a new life without this man as your husband. It may not be obvious but maybe you just get a divorce and as "family" to help you for the first year or so till you are back on your feet, is that an option? i am sorry for your situation :-( that sucks. This is much more then some other person and cheating and lies....much much more. :-(

@black4white there is no one in my life. no one has really cared about me or been a friend to me or even told the truth about me since i was 4. and i have never done anything to anyone ever in my life.