If my husband comes out and tells me that things didn't happen that actually did...
what does that mean?
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Luckylu · 61-69, F
People choose to see what they want to see. No two people see the same thing exactly the same way, and some choose to rewrite what actually happened. My thought is he is in denial and chooses to see only what he wants to see. It is a rare individual who will be honest and see things for what they were or are.
To know exactly what he means you would have to be able to trust what he says so if you would ask him directly, he would tell you and you would not have to wonder. If I felt as you do, I would ask, because what he means might be something quite unexpected, and not what you are thinking, a perception maybe you have not considered or a topic not what you thought it was. Ask him.
I really dislike obscure comments that leave interpretation open to so many misunderstandings. When someone says something of this nature to me, if there is something important going on between us, I ask for details of what he means, and when I do, I often find out what he is referring to is not at all what I thought he was.
To know exactly what he means you would have to be able to trust what he says so if you would ask him directly, he would tell you and you would not have to wonder. If I felt as you do, I would ask, because what he means might be something quite unexpected, and not what you are thinking, a perception maybe you have not considered or a topic not what you thought it was. Ask him.
I really dislike obscure comments that leave interpretation open to so many misunderstandings. When someone says something of this nature to me, if there is something important going on between us, I ask for details of what he means, and when I do, I often find out what he is referring to is not at all what I thought he was.
