I feel bad for some married dudes out there

I work around a lot of people, and people like to talk. This one married couple works in the same building, but different departments, and I overhear a lot. For instance, he's tired of a dead bedroom, nothing but plain vanilla if he gets any at all, and his wife outright refuses to do anything different than lying in bed. The wife, however, loves to brag about all the fun she had, the wild things she did in the past, and how she misses those days. Also about how her husband is stable, but not exciting.

I'm sure couples have all sorts of problems but come on lady. Don't just rely on your husband to do everything, you gotta bring some of that spice into the marriage yourself. This is how divorce and cheating starts.