Why do i leave when someone actually loves me?

I self sabotage so much im so tired. Even after finding the right person to be with that treats me well and loves me, i just want to leave them behind just to become alone and then want them back. Am i not made for a relationship? Am i just unlovable?

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ElwoodBlues · M

Perhaps you're feeling a version of imposter syndrome: perhaps you have doubts about whether you're capable of sustaining a loving relationship over the years, and feel like you're a phony for being in one. Perhaps there's even an element of empathy for the other person, where you tell yourself that since you maybe can't love him back properly, you're doing the right thing by setting him free.