“I’m just a sex object to you!”

@helenS yes we have one teenager

@LuckyDay Did you ever consider calling it a day, and grab your bag and your coat, and go to a better place?

@helenS I have. As I think about it, sex starts to happen again. Then another dry spell happens again

@LuckyDay I feel this isn't just about sex. It's a about loneliness, physical and spiritual.

@helenS Yes, it feels lonely. I've said this to her. She replies that we cuddle on the couch at night, as a way to say I shouldn't feel lonely. I mean it's nice, but that's enough for her.

@LuckyDay W don't know each other, but if you were a friend of mine I think I know what I'd tell you to do.