Help, I live in a sexless marriage!

My wife is catholic, quite a few months ago she was told by her church that we must live as brother and sister because her previous divorce of many years ago was not recognized by the catholic church! So she is taking this as law and will not allow me to make love to her or even touch or see her without clothes. I'm at my wits end with this, any help here?

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ValkyrieRider · 56-60, M

divorce is not an option, we've been together for 30 years, no problems till she started attending this catholic church.

ScarletWitch · 31-35, F

@ValkyrieRider you dont have to divorce to LEAVE. just leave. See how she she quickly changes her Demeanor.

Colormegone · 70-79, M

@ValkyrieRider So… if she wasn’t married in the catholic church, does the priest consider the first marriage to be valid?

ValkyrieRider · 56-60, M

@Colormegone its the divorce that is in question, it needs to be annulled by the catholic church and she can't locate her ex to get that done.

ScarletWitch · 31-35, F

@ValkyrieRider how do you know hes not dead? Can you make up a lie.

ValkyrieRider · 56-60, M

@ScarletWitch The church has to actually speak to him for some reason, I guess for part of the annulment

Colormegone · 70-79, M

@ValkyrieRider Ask how much $ for an annulment. Having been raised catholic ( no longer) that is the cure for anything catholic.

ValkyrieRider · 56-60, M

@Colormegone we are working on that, but needs to speak with her ex to do that!

ScarletWitch · 31-35, F

@ValkyrieRider that church sounds disgusting. Move away lol

ValkyrieRider · 56-60, M

@ScarletWitch These are all catholic church rules, not just this one. I've checked it out!

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

@ScarletWitch I think toxic is the word.