Sexless marriage

Hi ive been married for 15 yrs. The last 2 of which i can count on one hand how many times we have done anything sexual. She says she just doesnt feel like it anymore. No matyer what i say or do try to start with a relaxing massage she just says thats enough. She said she just quit wanting it. She used to love sex more then i did. For yrs i could hardly keep up to her then it was like a switch qent off and she wants nothing to do with sex. I love her and she says she loves me ihas nothing to do with that but i need to feel some sort of sexual pleasure from someone. Im actually thinking of looking for someone that just wants a quick fling. I dont know what else to do im getting into a very depressed state more than anything ive told her how attra tive i f8nd her that shes sexy. It just doesnt help. I find myself watxching porn looking at pics and i know i need real phsyical contact more then anything. At this stage id even be happy to just chat with another women just to get some kind of conversation going. If anyone has any advice im desperately listening.

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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

One alternative might be massages.
If she is not even open to that then there are the AMPs. If you become a regular they are more open to assisting with that. Alternatively, there are possibly old friends who are no longer married but are also looking for a safe connection with no strings attached. The bar approach may be a possibility but that can then lead to the much more risky and expensive option of going far afield and finding a few friends for the evenings. Unlike the AMPs these can be a bit more focused. The last thing that comes to mind is to grieve and accept. That is where I find myself. Good luck.

Funtimes25 · 46-50, M

@Tastyfrzz she doesnt want massages or never wants to give them. Id rather for now just meet someone online to chat with. Just to motivate me to do more. Help me.out of being depressed

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

@Funtimes25 well, the time might have come to say goodbye. [youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIFw2Sk4GsU]