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Lack of intimacy: living in a sexless marriage... unfortunately too common. Physical intimacy being an indispensable element in a relationship, marriage without sex can pose threat to a relationship. And also, the non physical intimacy, equally important and needed.

There are marriages which survive without sex, intimacy, and romance, however, but these are the attributes that set the relationship between a husband and a wife apart from all other familiar ties.... and the term "Room mates" comes on stage.

A lack of intimacy in marriage for men can be a major source of anxiety and frustration. Sometimes a lack of sex will trigger a man’s insecurities and in the long-run, can have damaging effects on his self-confidence, my humble opinion...

On the other hand, a lack of intimacy in marriage for women can be just as damaging– however, not always in the same way. And here´s the point I wanted to arrive to: the different and many ways those women react to their lack of intimacy (I´m in the group).

Open cheating, hidden cheating, friends with benefits, outsourcing among close/best friends, online resources...so many really....

I have decided on mine of course, which I have no special interest in "advertising" here, my friends know about it and I´m in no way saying it´s the best...it´s mine. It has to do with the way I think, feel, need to live...

Anyway, just an unimportant rambling...
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Ynot1more · 46-50, M
Agree it's very hard gets old feeling like a beggar or a thief... for pieces of moments much less sex gets old being the only half trying....
Velvety · F
@Ynot1more Don´t beg, take what´s yours: the right to get satisfaction. Where it´s offered to you.
Ynot1more · 46-50, M
Very hard in a small town lack of pool to swim in
Velvety · F
@Ynot1more Hmmm...the world´s so big...big cities are the worst place to "hide" somethng or somebody...ask the police, they´ll tell you...lol...
Ynot1more · 46-50, M
Just hard to fish without getting caught in small towns
Velvety · F
@Ynot1more Do you have female friends? How small can the town be? 50 people...?
Ynot1more · 46-50, M
Wife's dad is mail man... and I don't very away enough to mingle anywhere so only have online and nothing local that's low key
Velvety · F
@Ynot1more Then...divorce is always on stage...unless of course you priorise finance, etc. Here it´s free, easy, fast and no problem whatsoever...and they say we are "Third world countries"...lol...yes, sure.
Ynot1more · 46-50, M
Lol very true