New FWB is really big and I’m scared to hook up, advice please?

Make sure he’s lubricated and that you’re fully ready, also don’t be afraid to say something if you feel discomfort or pain. It’s supposed to be pleasurable experience for both parties. Unless he’s hung like a horse you should be fine 👍🏻

Progressive overload is usually the best way. Start with something you can handle for 12 reps, the increase the weight for 8 reps. Once you can do that for 12 reps, just keep going.

They have light dumbbells if you’re just starting out.

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I work mine in nice and slow when she’s really tight and not use to a bigger size. Plus he doesn’t need to go in all the way. Feels amazing when a girl can keep the focus more on the head but there is that urge to give a deep stroke every now and again

Lots of foreplay and lubrication. Take time to make sure you're ready to receive him.

if you both are into having good sex, and have adequate foreplay, there should be no problem. You need to be adequately prepared before insertion. You might be surprised at how much your vagina can accommodate.

Apparently silicon based lube is the best, last longer. I haven’t tried it myself yet to know.

First world problems smh

It depends on the person, but I (as a man) would strongly tell him in advance, that IF you want to try it, then you're going to need him to take it slow at first, and be willing to stop or slow down if you're not adjusting as quickly as you like.

And if he's not receptive to that, then, forget him, as he should absolutely be receptive to that, I mean guys like hearing that they're the biggest.

And lubrication, hopefully a lot from natural sources, but extra if needed...


And no "backdoor" stuff, you'd need to either enjoy pain, or build up to that.

And promise you'll get him off in other ways while you build up your comfort, IF that's what you want to do.