Would you give up on the relationship?

So I'm not even close to giving up on my relationship. I get comments everyday that my relationship is unconventional and I should leave him and be with someone physically. So my fiance is in prison for at least the next 5 years. I met him while he was in prison. We were friends for awhile talked everyday for months before we truly made it official. Anyway people say I'm crazy and hey they are open to their opinions. I see it this way. I will have him physically in my arms at some point, I see him as much as I can kiss hug him sit talk with him for hours. He does things for my heart no other man has done to this point. Yes I may crash and fall and get hurt. Shit I would rather crash and burn trying than to just give up on love and that happily ever after bullshit you know what I mean. Lol I just think some people are worth the fight and worth the wait. I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this but please at least be polite

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in10RjFox · M

Really nice to know that you met him in prison and the connection happened and that you pursued over phone. Actually phone connect is more intense than other forms as the souls interact directly.

It's just like any other long distance relationship where prison is like overseas.

Isn't there a family option where you can apply and spend a day with him in a private room ?

Sassychick420 · 31-35, F

@in10RjFox not in a private room but yes I can spend the day with him I do it all the time

in10RjFox · M

@Sassychick420 isn;t there an option to get married to him and start a family ? The reason is your age and that you can raise a child in the meantime.

Sassychick420 · 31-35, F

@in10RjFox yes we are in the process of getting married. But conjugal visits and time alone are only allowed in five states in the United States

in10RjFox · M

@Sassychick420 What was his crime ? is he eligible for Parole or when? Actually you can make your intentions clear in a document and approach through a lawyer. In the document you should declare your status, your financial condition and how you can support. You may go for IUI by making him as sperm donor. Also if its his first time, his remorse in a documented manner can get him out faster. He can say how you have changed his life and how destiny had it that you two have to meet and how he wishes to start a new life, and not go the old ways. No harm in trying. Judges do take into consideration and are serious about things in document.