I think the first question before any relationship is what is your vision and dream of your future ?

A man needs to have a women in his life to assist him in getting to his dream or his vision and if a women is with a man without a vision and dream she will not be satisfied . she will follow her own dream and vision of having a man with a dream and a vision would you agree ?

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OogieBoogie · F

I'm not sure I agree. Goals ARE important, and having aligned ones is reasonably important in a relationship .

I think a good relationship has a lot to do with matching ethics.
Relationships can have multiple goals , or maybe even none whatsoever ....isnt it about how you ARE together , and HOW you work together?
The journey so so speak, not the destination .

I mean, if you don't enjoy the moments , what is the point of slogging your life to a goal if it's not the the togetherness you enjoy the most ?