I think the first question before any relationship is what is your vision and dream of your future ?

A man needs to have a women in his life to assist him in getting to his dream or his vision and if a women is with a man without a vision and dream she will not be satisfied . she will follow her own dream and vision of having a man with a dream and a vision would you agree ?

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MorbidCynic · F

Everyone should follow their own dream and it’s important to have a life purpose. As per being an issue in a relationship, I don’t think so. It wasn’t until this year I discovered my life purpose, and I have been with my bf for 3 years. A lot of people don’t have their lives figured out, there’s a beauty in growing with your partner.

Justme5868 · 36-40, M

@MorbidCynic yes I do agree with you completely but you need to have some kind of a vision to work towards together ... I don't think you will ever actually get there without a life partner but to actually have a vision is so important from my perspective