Money is hurting my relationship [I Need Advice On Relationships]

3 months ago my bf and I had to leave our old place due to a fight with our roommates. We're living in an RV at my parents and now trying to move out again. My boyfriend and I get along wonderful except when it comes to finances and this situation has us having to focus on our money. We just don't see things eye to eye. I'm starting to resent him because I believe he's unambitious and unwilling to improve himself. He's starting to become irritated with me because I bug him about saving money and spending excessively. I'm just tired of this.

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Oster1 · M

Personally, I don’t see him changing unless something shocks it into him.
Your gut is screaming at you. You may need to make a decision. On note paper, write two columns. Pros and cons and what you can and can’t live with. I seriously think that talking at this stage is unproductive.

@questionWeaver was very correct. Not all and maybe some can change but then again, it may just be an incompatibility between the two of you. Good luck to you. I wish you the best.😊🌷