Money is hurting my relationship [I Need Advice On Relationships]

3 months ago my bf and I had to leave our old place due to a fight with our roommates. We're living in an RV at my parents and now trying to move out again. My boyfriend and I get along wonderful except when it comes to finances and this situation has us having to focus on our money. We just don't see things eye to eye. I'm starting to resent him because I believe he's unambitious and unwilling to improve himself. He's starting to become irritated with me because I bug him about saving money and spending excessively. I'm just tired of this.

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questionWeaver

Men in the 18-32 demographic are the most immature and unambitious we likely have ever seen.

They are setting all kinds of records for unemployment, murders, spousal abuse, crimes and lack of new business starts.

Just to provide context, that your experience is being repeated over and over with men in that demographic. A lot is due to schooling and over parenting at a young age.

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@questionWeaver YOU HIT IT RIGHT ON THE HEAD

questionWeaver

@DeluxedEdition a side note, men in that age group, are also the world's most inept murderers and criminals ... they seem to ALL use their social media accounts to create alibis and argue innocence ... which ends up leading law enforcement right to them.

Nobody has ever seen group behavior like this before ... some theorize it is due to young men living inside video games from too young of an age ... that they can not cope with reality

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@questionWeaver i was really shocked when i saw spousal abuse 😐 but sadly it made sense

questionWeaver

@DeluxedEdition yes, the amount of domestic violence, restraining orders, convictions and the progression to more serious crimes of spouse murder ... are setting all kind of records in that demographic.

Some note the meth influence in that age group. But, it is likely more than that factor.

It most likely is related to the huge disparity between real maturity at 21, for men.

questionWeaver

@DeluxedEdition am working on legislation to address the new 72 hour head start that domestic abusers get over law enforcement ... i.e. - the "missing spouse" drama