Seeing a guy with trust issues [I Need Relationship Advice]

I've been seeing this guy for about two months. We catch up 1-3 times a week and it's basically as if we are in a relationship at this point, just without the label. He had an ex which gave him some major trust issues. When I say I'm going out with friends he always thinks it's a date or I'm sleeping with someone. I told him I value what we have so I wouldn't risk ruining it by seeing other people. He doesn't believe me, whenever I try and reason to him it just sounds like excuses. Aside from the major trust issues with me seeing other people, he's such a great and genuine person. What do I do?

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This is very bad. The relationship is not truly established, but he already tries to keep you away from your friends because of his issues. If you allow him to do that, then he doesn't need to work on his issue and will just block you from your friends to make himself feel good. This is extremely selfish of him even if he doesn't realise that. If he cannot work that out he's not fit for a relationship.