I Need Some Relationship Advice

I have a friend who's been having trouble with her boyfriend recently and a few days ago she told me she was thinking of leaving her boyfriend for me. I really like her and I do have a slight crush on her but I told her that I didn't want a relationship with her because I thought it was bad timing. I'd be happy to date her but I just don't want to be a rebound girlfriend. Did I do the right thing?

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Serenitree · F

If it feels wrong to be in a relationship so soon after her previous one, then you did the right thing. Being an interim girlfriend isn't what you want. The rebound relationships are usually just a salve to rub into the hurt heart and bruised ego. Then they move on to someone else.

JoanieNewHampshire · T

I think you are thinking rightly!

pianoisland · 31-35, M

YES!! Being a rebound sucks!! See if she feels the same way about you well after she stops talking about her boyfriend, if he is still brought up, shes still rebounding!!

gurlwatcher22 · 61-69, M

Yes. She'll lose him and come back to you in time.If you want her for just a booty call for starters, she should be cool with that.If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.Good luck!

TheNephilim · 31-35, M

Not sure. But it makes sense

joahola98wj · 31-35, F

Yes, you did.

allsfinebime2 · M

Yes

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