Ladies and gentlemen, What does equality mean for you in a relationship?

My money is my money. His money is also my money.l?

Her money is her, but also mine.

Should she pay for dates as well, since we are all equal? First or 2nd, dont matter or divide?

Should she hold the door for him like he is expected to hold for her?

Just wondering?

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Bleak · 36-40, F

For me, equality in a relationship isn’t about keeping score over money, doors, or dates. It’s about mutual respect, care, and doing what works for both people. I don’t earn, and my husband says I don’t need to, he considers his money ours, and I value that kind of partnership more than splitting of everything.