Let's talk relationships

So I was talking to this individual one time and they were saying they wouldn't leave their significant other because of infidelity. They were saying they'd fight as long as the significant other still wants in.

Personally I think she's right somehow. Imagine getting a divorce after years of marriage just because your significant other opened the door of infidelity and let someone shake your marriage. If he still wants to be with me then I'll have to find a way to deal with it not give up on my marriage. I'm the type that would also bring another person if the lonliness is getting too much. Don't judge, I'm only human 😅.

What's your take on this?

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Mamapolo2016 · F

I would be less concerned about the physical aspects of cheating and more about the sort of person I was married to.

If a person who is married is having an affair, he’s cheating not one woman but two. He is lying to the mistress about divorcing his wife and lying to his wife, telling her she’s crazy, he’s not cheating.

So already he is a cheater, a liar and a gaslighter. He is using them both for his own pleasure. Add user to his pedigree. (If the cheater is the woman, it’s the same.).

He is also putting both at health risk.

I would have no time for him, accept that I chose wrong and terminate the relationship. Then we’re both free to live as we please.