how to not feel angry when a woman rejects me

i've been rejected a lot of times by women in my life who i tried to chat to, interact with...always found socializing with them difficult because i never learned the social skills, like other men did, because i had difficult psychological problems and social problems....and i've never had a relationship and i'm late 40s now...but did have quite a few sex with girls i met in my late teens.

but i've never took rejection easy from women, especially if i really liked her or started to feel interested in her...and she backed off and i never heard from that girl again? that made me feel very angry and disappointed...angry at the female character and how they can just do that to you?....it left me feeling bitter too.....and resenting women for how they treated me when all i wanted was a connection with them??

is there a healthier way to deal with rejection from a woman you started to like?

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MayorOfCrushtown · M Best Comment

i always looked at it like this......... if she stopped showing interest, it wasnt meant to be, and she was probably doing me a favor, that way i didnt have to waste any more time on someone i was not supposed to be with. everyone who rejected me was clearing the way for the person i ended up with.

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@MayorOfCrushtown thanks for answering again, a good way of looking at it, i make the mistake of dwelling on it.

MayorOfCrushtown · M

@durinsBane1983 thanks for best answer

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@MayorOfCrushtown all the very best.