Divorce etiquette?

I have almost all of the photos that were ever taken during my marriage, minus what might on his phone maybe. I have every vacation, every event, all school pictures, all class pictures of our kids during each grade, etc. Of course I have all of the wedding photos too.

I also have every card, every picture drawn, every ornament, and pretty much every single thing that the children made us during the 15 year marriage.

I have all of the report cards or the school awards or the art pictures sent home as well.

He did not ask for a single bit of it. I even had to give him back his own childhood pictures that his mother gave to us.

Is this typical?

I recently went through some of it and thought about giving him some of it but then thought no, if he wanted it he would’ve asked for it.

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Adrift · 61-69, F

I would let my kids go through any pictures or memorabilia that they may want and put the rest in a box and store it. Eventually if he doesn't seem to want them, you could decide weather or not you want to just throw them away.
I have found through cleaning out my parents house that most of this stuff was kept for us.
Stuff we didnt want like our doodles and report cards, we ended up just throwing away.