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Have you or a partner ever been made redundant? And how did you navigate it?

My partner has been made redundant. Initially I tried to stay positive to get him focused to start accepting things and looking for other work. Meanwhile his solicitors fought his case for the redundancy package.
It was a shock to us both we just got back from holiday and found out that we're pregnant.

Life that was on a high came crashing down. (at least for me) he reassures me he's fine as he's still employed until it's settled.

He's making use of his time off, playing computer games, baking and catching up with old friends.

But in the month I've noticed his morale and self discipline go out the window.

He's gained weight, has lost some confidence and just seems very unsure.

I'm doing my best to remain positive but with everything else going on inside me, I'm worried that I may say the wrong thing.

I love him and care for him but all of this is completely new to us.

Any advice or words of comfort would really help right now.

Thank you for reading.
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FIRST: Congratulations on the pregnancy.

Now let's talk about the job thing. Simply put, now is the time to heavily focus on getting those resumes out there. Do not count on anyone or anything (such as his case) to "just happen." Sit down and list those things (in a job) that are most important to you at this stage of your life, then list the opportunities (jobs) that will fulfill those things on your list.

And do the same for yourself..... Your world is about to drastically change. Adapt and conquer...

In the meantime..... explore those things that can benefit your situation in the short term, such as unemployment benefits and any government programs that may be available to expectant women.