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Serious question

At what point in a relationship do you share your kinks and fantasies and stuff? For example, totally hypothetical, breast worship?
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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
When things start getting more intimate! As we get closer and I love having this conversation so that we are on the same page!
pdockal · 56-60, M
All depends on the feelings getting from the other person and where we meet
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
A lot might depend on how out there these kinks are. The one you mentioned no big deal.
8INCHSheffieldGuy · 41-45, M
Breast worship / Adult Breast Feeding kink fetish here. Want to chat LadyGemini ?..
Kae20 · 61-69, FVIP
It depends on how often you are intimate and if the relationship is expected to be long-term. There has to be some guarantees hes not going to report me to the authorities 😄
Nick1 · 61-69, M
@Kae20 it all depends if you have similar interest. If you both are adult and consenting, then what to report?
Kae20 · 61-69, FVIP
@Nick1 you might be surprised
Nick1 · 61-69, M
@Kae20 I am sure there may be some using it when their unjust or extreme demands don’t get fulfilled.
robertsnj · 56-60, M
I don't have any kinks but, I tihnk you should put odd stuff on the table soon. Way before the other person feels they are in a relationship.

To give you a comparision: When I was single I would offer up by the 2nd-3rd date that I didn't want kids and I didn't believe in God. It was a deal breaker a lot. But at least I felt good not dropping that bomb 6 months in.

I would say kinks are more important to reveal early than my two pieces of information and you could use that as a semi-benchmark. If you dating someone and say you wanted kids and they did not not how long before they gave you that information (or vice versa) is reasonable? They should know ones kinks at or before whatever time frame you put for my information.

If one did have a kink the other pseron probably isn't going to get use to it over time. The odder that kink is the more it will be a knockout fact for that relationship.

They are either ok with, into it or repulsed by it from the rip. The person with the kink isn't going eventually convince them that this idea is ok.
cuddles1266 · 70-79, M
Interesting question. My first response is a soon as possible to see if the two of you are able to connect.
But...
People to change over time and the desires inside them change too. I've become more interested in "out of the normal" things as I have aged so these are more difficult to bring up when you have been with someone for a long time.
Still it's best if you can have a sit down and talk and express the desires you have inside. Let them out slowly so as to not overwhelm your partner.
Thanks for asking this. It made me think and consider this.
ASolitaryMan · 61-69, M
Id think if you both feel comfortable. " What woukd you say... ?" Make it light and fun. They there's the in the lust of the moment, tell them to do something... that will take the wrapper off the candy or break the ice. Purly hypothetical, of course
Nicenlongnthick · 41-45, M
I found straight away was best for me then you both know what you both like from the word go
Amylynne · 31-35, F
That happens to bebe a favorite church of mine!
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
As soon as you trust the person.
Maturebate · 70-79, M
I would not reveal too much too soon. These things are nice to discover over time as you get deeper into the relationship and trust grows. Too soon and you can find the other is not ready and reacts negatively when in due course could have been comfortable.
Patriot96 · 56-60, C
Second date works for me
Pretzel · 70-79, M
When you decide that you want a physical relationship.
State your needs and desires.
If the other person is appalled then it's best to know before the relationship progresses.
ccvic · 31-35, M
Depends! Some girlfriends I never told about that (lactation included), and another time I matched with a new mom and I told her in our first conversation. It's kind of a taboo kink I think, still.
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SW-User
Depends on the personality of the two. Sometimes its very early on if both partners are not very judgey
Nick1 · 61-69, M
It depends what you are seeking and how much important it is.
There are many forms of breasts worshiping. You have to find a person with similar interest.
blackarcher256 · 61-69, M
I think you’ll know, when if ever, the time is right. It all comes down to trust.
SW-User
Totally within the first six months. Depends on our comfort level
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Hopefully sooner rather than later - or they just fester, or worse they just fade and your left with dullness and eventually regret.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
I think definitely when you’re moving it to physical.
SW-User
as soon as there is mutual interest in a physical relationship, imo
Bowenw · 61-69, M
Early on so they aren't led to believe you are something you aren't.
Tracos · 51-55, M
Probably after a few physical encounters
Tracos · 51-55, M
although worshipping breasts might be earlier than that 😎
Panamared · 70-79, M
Good question
SW-User
I'd start slow by asking her to change her username to LadyBoobini, take it from there
496sbc · 36-40, M
Im up front. So
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Before it. Why would I even start a relationship without knowing if we're sexually compatible?
SnailTeeth · 36-40, M
You can just keep them to yourself. Relationships aren't about sex, they're about being withholding and torturous toward each other.
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