Serious question

I don't have any kinks but, I tihnk you should put odd stuff on the table soon. Way before the other person feels they are in a relationship.

To give you a comparision: When I was single I would offer up by the 2nd-3rd date that I didn't want kids and I didn't believe in God. It was a deal breaker a lot. But at least I felt good not dropping that bomb 6 months in.

I would say kinks are more important to reveal early than my two pieces of information and you could use that as a semi-benchmark. If you dating someone and say you wanted kids and they did not not how long before they gave you that information (or vice versa) is reasonable? They should know ones kinks at or before whatever time frame you put for my information.

If one did have a kink the other pseron probably isn't going to get use to it over time. The odder that kink is the more it will be a knockout fact for that relationship.

They are either ok with, into it or repulsed by it from the rip. The person with the kink isn't going eventually convince them that this idea is ok.

Interesting question. My first response is a soon as possible to see if the two of you are able to connect.
But...
People to change over time and the desires inside them change too. I've become more interested in "out of the normal" things as I have aged so these are more difficult to bring up when you have been with someone for a long time.
Still it's best if you can have a sit down and talk and express the desires you have inside. Let them out slowly so as to not overwhelm your partner.
Thanks for asking this. It made me think and consider this.

It depends on how often you are intimate and if the relationship is expected to be long-term. There has to be some guarantees hes not going to report me to the authorities 😄

It depends what you are seeking and how much important it is.
There are many forms of breasts worshiping. You have to find a person with similar interest.

Second date works for me

I would not reveal too much too soon. These things are nice to discover over time as you get deeper into the relationship and trust grows. Too soon and you can find the other is not ready and reacts negatively when in due course could have been comfortable.

Depends! Some girlfriends I never told about that (lactation included), and another time I matched with a new mom and I told her in our first conversation. It's kind of a taboo kink I think, still.

When you decide that you want a physical relationship.
State your needs and desires.
If the other person is appalled then it's best to know before the relationship progresses.

You can just keep them to yourself. Relationships aren't about sex, they're about being withholding and torturous toward each other.

Before it. Why would I even start a relationship without knowing if we're sexually compatible?

Depends on the personality of the two. Sometimes its very early on if both partners are not very judgey

I'd start slow by asking her to change her username to LadyBoobini, take it from there

I think you’ll know, when if ever, the time is right. It all comes down to trust.

as soon as there is mutual interest in a physical relationship, imo

Probably after a few physical encounters

I think definitely when you’re moving it to physical.

Totally within the first six months. Depends on our comfort level

Early on so they aren't led to believe you are something you aren't.

As soon as you trust the person.

Good question

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