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Serious question

How would a woman react if a guy opens up and show the sensitive side inside him... Do woman expect men to be tough all the time?...hmmm
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
I think it depends on the depth of the relationship. Not everyone deserves to see your soft underbelly.

If you have a connection with someone and have built trust, being vulnerable can feel wonderful. It takes the weight of the world off you for a little while, and it can bring you closer to your partner.

However, if you get all weepy because your take-out order was messed up, that’s a turn off. 😄
reddevil · 26-30, M
@ChampagneOnIce maybe...
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@reddevil Good luck!
reddevil · 26-30, M
@ChampagneOnIce 🥂🥂
Luckylu · 61-69, F
Men who reveal their vulnerable side, are stronger than men who keep that part hidden and never reveal it. I value the man who trusts me enough to reveal all that he is to me and would never betray him. Doing so would create a stronger bond and a deeper relationship. I can’t be with a man who is not able to reveal his sensitivities or vulnerabilities. But then I need a man who is strong in character, confident in who he is and loves deeply. A relationship is a partnership where two people are there for each other, if I don’t know when he is hurting, how can I be there for him? It just can’t be onesided.
Rosieposie10 · 31-35, F
@Luckylu i hear you i feel think the exact same, i lost the love of my life because he tried to show his vunrible side to me at the wrong place, with people their that shouldn't have been their, an to not disrespect them i did the worst thing an just ignored it, everyday since iv regrettedthat choice because he was a guy whi very seldom opens himself up to anyone, an he did to me, we were so alike an sadly he pushed me away so far out of his life i lost my career, hell never know how much i love him an how i wish he could have not shut away after that one moment, its hard to love someone forever who can't show their feelings... Show they care anake one move an then that's it, we lost something that was meant an special not everyone gets between two people, 💔, defiantly a guy who can show emotions not be cold an cold hearted shut off who fights for what he wants,
exexec · 61-69, C
My wife would have never married me if she had not seen my sensitive side.
SnailTeeth · 36-40
If a woman has implicit expectations of you, that you don't feel comfortable with, then you need to just keep looking until you do.
There's no easy road to satisfaction.
The good without the bad, ain't no good at all.
Adstar · 56-60, M
Most woman seek provision and protection from men.. A crying soft man is not percieved as a person capable of protecting you.. Woman more often then not will lose romatic interest in a man they see crying..
reddevil · 26-30, M
@Adstar finally someone speaking the truth... Cheers🥂🥂
lovelychicadee · 46-50, F
I don't think women expect that. I personally like when a man can show a sensitive side. It makes me feel like I can trust them and open up myself. However too sensitive no. I have needed to take care of sensitive men and I didn't particularly enjoy that.
BigImo · 26-30, F
It's a huge green flag. Makes them at least ten times more attractive
reddevil · 26-30, M
@BigImo really!!
some women are actually nice and appreciate the effort
reddevil · 26-30, M
CardiacKintsugi · 61-69, F
I think she would be flattered and relieved to know that such strength has a core of sensitivity, would love you more and connect deeper because you shared such an intimate part of yourself.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
First with joy that she has been able to bring out that side of him. Then eventually with disgust that he has that side of him.

Just being honest
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
It depends on the woman
SW-User
I like it.

 
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