I think it depends on the depth of the relationship. Not everyone deserves to see your soft underbelly.
If you have a connection with someone and have built trust, being vulnerable can feel wonderful. It takes the weight of the world off you for a little while, and it can bring you closer to your partner.
However, if you get all weepy because your take-out order was messed up, that’s a turn off. 😄
If a woman has implicit expectations of you, that you don't feel comfortable with, then you need to just keep looking until you do. There's no easy road to satisfaction. The good without the bad, ain't no good at all.
Men who reveal their vulnerable side, are stronger than men who keep that part hidden and never reveal it. I value the man who trusts me enough to reveal all that he is to me and would never betray him. Doing so would create a stronger bond and a deeper relationship. I can’t be with a man who is not able to reveal his sensitivities or vulnerabilities. But then I need a man who is strong in character, confident in who he is and loves deeply. A relationship is a partnership where two people are there for each other, if I don’t know when he is hurting, how can I be there for him? It just can’t be onesided.
Most woman seek provision and protection from men.. A crying soft man is not percieved as a person capable of protecting you.. Woman more often then not will lose romatic interest in a man they see crying..
I don't think women expect that. I personally like when a man can show a sensitive side. It makes me feel like I can trust them and open up myself. However too sensitive no. I have needed to take care of sensitive men and I didn't particularly enjoy that.
I think she would be flattered and relieved to know that such strength has a core of sensitivity, would love you more and connect deeper because you shared such an intimate part of yourself.