Ladies, quick question:

I would Take care of the child if possible and within my legal rights. The kid isn't to blame for anything. But he would be gone- kid or not, I don't do second chances with cheating.

Why would he bring the child to me? Unless the mother didn’t want the child…. Don’t want kidnapping charges haha

I personally don’t think I could do it (for emotional reasons), and if I did, I would probably take the child but tell him to go. I have two of my own with my husband, I would feel a lot of resentment if he were there in that situation… if the child needed me, I could maybe take them if the husband weren’t in the picture anymore

Bob Geldof did that, he raised his ex wife’s kid with her lover after they both died.
Amazing really. 😌

The Nobel thing to do would be to let him go off and raise his child with her.
Not take the child and raise it herself.
He's a grown man who obviously doesn't need his wife, let him figure it out.

He should ask me before bringing the child into our marriage. There is nothing noble about going against your own wishes to make someone else happy.

Equally quick answer that is already answered before:

Please stay with Her and give the kid love of both parents.

Im not maternal so probably not but if i really deeply loved them and we could have childcare etc maybe id stay yeah

Dont take it out on the child if u forgave him its not innocent childs fault

If my husband did that he can stay with her cause I'm not rising someone else's child.

If he cheated on me, he would be out of the picture for good.

The nerve ..