I miss having a partner tbh

Living life alone, moving here and there...what a beautiful story and life I have, and I have no complaints! I'm growing stronger, wiser, calmer... But living life without the joy of sharing it closely with someone. I'm sharing with people, but the level of closeness of having a partner.

Do you miss having a partner? How is this going for you?

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ABCDEF7 · M

I guess, I am getting used to it. Earlier sometimes it used to be emotionally painful. Now I am just concerned about dying alone in the old age.

Boeing · 36-40

@ABCDEF7 you mean, living alone in old age, because we all die along anyways..

ABCDEF7 · M

@Boeing It's the fear when you have no one to care for, when you need it.

Boeing · 36-40

@ABCDEF7 I have gone through that fear I believe, though there are always levels and intensities.
What I see is that we live in a web, we're not hermits. And so, a neighbor, a nurse, some service for the elderly, perhaps some service from the municipality, a friend, a cousin. Even a dog or a cat sometimes can indeed help you.
My take is to do the best I can to keep myself healthy, as much as I can. Have a smile on my face. Try to take life with more ease..
But, in the end, I can understand.

But, wait!! aren't you getting married in 2026? I remember I read that from you here!!! :)

ABCDEF7 · M

@Boeing Yes, I was thinking to start that chapter of my life in this year, but I don't see any positive vibes till now, let's see what happens.