Can you ever really know your long term partner?

I’m right at the “boom time” of divorces in my peer group. People’s stories are fascinating. Secret drug habits, gambling debts and of course cheating. I’m not talking about myself here. I don’t think I’m in the same boat, but how would you ever know?

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exexec · 61-69, C

As I've said many times on SW, my wife and I dated almost eight years, ages 15-22, but when we finally married, both of us were surprised by a few things. Nothing bad, just surprises that we didn't know about each other.