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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I don't think it's possible to ever know anyone beyond a certain depth, especially in a marriage. The irony is that maintaining a functional and successful marriage often requires that we hide a lot of ourselves from the people we're supposed to be closest to. I suppose there are people who are fortunate enough to be satisfied and content to be in a relationship with someone with whom they share absolute and complete transparency, but I've never met them.
@DunningKruger Yes I agree with that too. Sometimes the less you ask the happier things are in a marriage. Full transparency would make for a pretty boring life I’d imagine.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Notladylike Boring might be the best possible outcome. More often than not, it would likely cause abject misery.