Anyone feel a little more lost after your birthday?

I know I do. Just turned Twenty and I feel like I am not where I should be..
It could have a little to do with the fact that I got a few calls and texts from people you know those you haven't talked to in a while? yeah those and they tell you they're married or that they have a kid or a good job... and now I feel nothing is on track...

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LithiumDrop

I'm 20, and I THANK GOD I don't have a kid or feel the urge to get married yet.

I'm working, going to school and enjoying every bit of life I can before I have to take on such responsibilities. I could care less if I miss out on a few play dates or whatever.

Embrace your youth.

silver1sil · 26-30, F

@Antiquity: Oh, I don't want a kid for at least another 3-5 years so that's not what I am even worried about more like I can't even find anyone to date or if I do I don't last with them very long..

so marriage is a while off. more like I feel that i should be farther along in my studies but its hard as is and I do NOT want to overload myself but that would be the best way for me to feel like I am a little more on track... does that make any sense?

LithiumDrop

@silver1sil: That makes complete sense. I'm on the same boat, and I've learned to take it day by day.

There's no use in overloading oneself, because stress is very harmful... and such harm can cause either physical or mental sickness.

I learned that from personal experience... my first year of college. You'll get a hang of it.

silver1sil · 26-30, F

No, I know I took 18 cr hrs my first semester. then 15 second semester I got a D in each semester and retook

them because that is not acceptable for me, personally. It was too much the past year I took 12 and then 9. so

I think I am doing okay.