Suppose you were married for 7 years today. Would you arrange something special for your patner?

@FloorGenAdm I understand but isn’t there always too much shit to do in life? It’s often his excuse to why we’re not spending much quality time together. When you look at what’s important in life, I feel like we often miss opportunities to invest our time in it.

@kimmy159 I just said it cause I figured no one else would (somebody had to).

@FloorGenAdm Guess not, but honestly I do understand. It’s not like I don’t have a busy life of my own. I have a very busy career and we have a kid of 5 years old. I mainly take care of him cause my husband has a busy career too. But often when people feel tired, they stop putting in the effort. I’ve never been like that but it saddens me sometimes that I don’t seem to get the same effort returned on that front.
I know it’s quite demanding in some way. But if I’m willing to do the same, I guess I expect at least a bit of effort too :-)