Suppose you were married for 7 years today. Would you arrange something special for your patner?

@AnonymousJSS I agree. You’d think that after 7 years of marriage and 17 years of being together in general, your partner ought to know whether you would want to celebrate it or not and how you prefer those celebrations right :-)

@kimmy159 It’s always the intention that counts.

@AnonymousJSS That’s true. Although I must admit that even though there are intentions, I’m still somewhat disappointed that it’s never something I actually like. In my mind, truly loving your partner should at least occasionally result into arranging something you know they’d like :( or maybe I’m just too demanding idk. I was hoping this question would make me see different opinions so it’s okay if you’d think it’s too demanding 😂

@kimmy159 No, it’s not too demanding. A man who is truly in love will do anything for you to make you happy. Why do you think we sometimes see super old men still buying flowers for their wife every Monday after 40+ years?? Men act stupid but they’re not that stupid, they’re very smart and when in love they’ll do anything for their woman.
Collect yourself ma’am. What value is your husband bringing to you? He’s gotten comfortable so it’s time to take away something so he’ll get the hint. Stop cooking for him, stop giving him sex, go on a small vacation for a few days. You need to make him miss you, but don’t cheat.

@AnonymousJSS Ha then I’m doing most of the things right ^^ I planned a trip with my best friend for 3 days and we’ll just do our girlie stuff. She knows more about what I like doing than my husband does while I told my husband so many things and I don’t even need to tell her 🤷🏻‍♀️

@kimmy159 It’s time to go back to the dating stage and give him hot and cold. At some point not even marriage counseling or talking things out works. You have to make him miss you. Go on your vacation and don’t text him or contact him until he does first.

@AnonymousJSS the thing is, he’s away from home quite a lot for work already. And I know it’s not because there’s other women involved or anything. But I feel we should have the miss part already but it’s not really there from his side. He’s never been very affectionate and that I knew, but still it somehow disappoints on occassions.

@kimmy159 I see. You can always dm if you need tips or advice, although they’re very psychopathic and manipulative. I’m just really good at this stuff.

@AnonymousJSS I’m supposed to be too to be honest 😂 It’s just that my husband knows me too well on that front by now after having been together since we were teenagers :-) I appreciate it though 😁 Can I add you?

@kimmy159 Yes you may