Married childless couples

Do you think married couples without kids can be happy and have a fulfilling life?

I am on the fence about having kids and I dunno if I want them. I love kids but unsure I want to make a lifetime commitment of someone really depending on me. I think it scares me because of the environment I grew up in and because of the mental illness that has ran in my family. I dunno and because of younger ppl than me that I see now days. I also struggle with depression on and off and although I am a high functioning adult with depression I wouldn’t want my kids to go through that I would be way to worried. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F

I have depression and anxiety but im functioning. Ive been able to keep a job and be self sufficient even though its hard sometimes. I felt the same way as you i think with my experience id say if you have support like parents that can help you or your husband's side thay will help in terms of coming over so you can take a nap or have a day to relax and take a break thats a life saver!

Now that i have my daughter i can say my life is much more fulfilling and loving. Im still depressed sometimes and anxious but ive learn to self regulate much better.