Married childless couples

Do you think married couples without kids can be happy and have a fulfilling life?

I am on the fence about having kids and I dunno if I want them. I love kids but unsure I want to make a lifetime commitment of someone really depending on me. I think it scares me because of the environment I grew up in and because of the mental illness that has ran in my family. I dunno and because of younger ppl than me that I see now days. I also struggle with depression on and off and although I am a high functioning adult with depression I wouldn’t want my kids to go through that I would be way to worried. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

Sure they can! Kids aren’t necessary to live a fulfilling life..

JaneCas · 26-30, F

@Quetzalcoatlus yes that’s what I think to but than I feel it’s frowned upon especially being a Christian

Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

@JaneCas You’ll be even happier once you figure out other people’s opinions are not meant to be taken seriously

RedGrizzly · 26-30, F

@JaneCas Christianity doesn't frown on singledom. In fact, scripture says being single or a couple with or without kids are ALL blessings. But I do understand the pressure from other people, societal norms, and even parents wanting grandkids can wear on you and what you want out of life.