That's the trick, you can't appear to be too strong of a woman from the start. You have to play the part of the fragile flower that needs protecting. First you're alluring and then let him think asking you out is all his idea. Then once you get him to marry you, then you can run his life.
@ProfessionalHauler thing is, a lot of people's online Persona may not even be close to how they are in real life.
@blackdiamonds in my observation, there doesn't seem to be much Rhino reason as to who gets with who in the dating scene or why some people have good or bad luck. There are many theories and guessing but for every one of those statements there is a conflicting story.
I find it very hard that no one would be willing to buy you a dinner and get to know you. They may be married, but the real question is, are they happy. It's better to be single and happy until that right one finds you than be unhappy and married.
I had this conversation with a lady in the laundromat about 35 years ago. I think it’s human nature that men don’t appreciate a woman unless he’s challenged by her.
