Other than infidelity, abuse or addiction what was the last straw that convinced you to finally divorce? Also how long did you stay married?

Obv this is a question for divorced members.

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My ex had to make sure I'd never collect social security on his salary, after convincing me to stay home with the kids.
I got raped by him on Aug 17 and served with papers a day later.
It was sudden and planned years in advance to get me good!
Married 9 years and 9 months.